OK before you make any opoinions about this please hear me out.

I love my husband…we have been together for 14 years and married for 7. In the past we have had the on again off again relationship but for the past 3 years we have been solid.

I love him I really do…but he is more like the little brother that I never had. He is honestly my best friend.

But he is LOUSY in bed. Sometimes it’s so bad that I just tell him to stop. I won’t cheat…we have a little boy and I couldn’t ruin his family because I am not happy. That’s wrong…

Anyone else with this probem…any advice?
I don’t know if some of you have missed the part about us being together for a total of 14 years…trust me I have TALKED and TOLD him…but it doesn’t seem to do any good. My son will be 18 in 12 years…but that’ s a long time to wait for some good “stuff”
Oh…and I was a FREAK before I met him…but he isn’t into all that…he is very….well boring…I am going to snap soon lol

My husband has three sisters, one of which is a real bitch. She has to copy everything I do. She pretends she knows everything about fashion. Just turned her hair color from black to blonde. Pierced her nose. Got a tattoo. Mind you she is a mother of 2 kids but pretends she was never married. She keeps insulting me when we meet at family gathering. Her husband is a workaholic and behaves odd all the time.I guess she’s not getting enough from him that’s why she wants cheap publicity .
Thanks guys…your advice meant alot to me. I really feel better now.

My husabands brothers wife constantly annoys me be it alone or infront of others. She always makes it a point to only speak to my husband and ignore me completely.Funny part is now all the ladies in our friends circle have also started doing the same. It really screws up my mind at times and i end up depressed or with a fight with my husband. Whats wrong people ?

Has anyone ever heard of an emotional affair? I was watching Dr. Phil the other day and heard him tell the lady she was having an emotional affair.

What exactly do you think this entails.
Give me details.

Have you ever experienced an emotional affair?

Do you think this is cheating?
And why?
I feel it is cheating and wrong.
And one should avoid any persons if an emotional affair is at risk.

I dated a divorced man (8yr divorcee) for 2yrs and never really felt that he saw me for whom I am truly as a person. I was reluctant to date this guy because he was previously married, but no less decided to give him the benefit of the doubt. I always thought that I was compared to his ex-wife and made it clear to him that I was not and if she wanted to continue this relationship does not mention his ex. Where we have done very well, but in reality I never thought our relationship was developing. I definitely put more effort in that I was to receive. He continued to live in the past and made negative concepts toward marriage and women. I was patient and compassionate with its past, but he wanted to go so our relationship could prosper. I was definitely ready to go to the next level, but was not feel well after 2 years (some problems rather painful), I decided to pull back. I am now ready to start dating again and not want to be divorced prejudices against men, but after this experience I do not know if I can

My husband struck me about a month ago. He is, I think, an alcoholic, and this is not a common thing for him. I left and went to stay with my parents. Why are 5 hours to stay away from him, I brought his son to see him for a week. Since I was here, he has not had a drink at all, and it was really sweet to me, saying all the things I always wanted to tell him (i love you, the beautiful, all the things a girl wants hear) My parents want me and my son to stay with them, my husband wants us to stay with him, even offering to move closer to my parents are still able to see them more often desires, I do not know what I want to do, Our son was so happy days with his dad (who is 5 months old), and I like seeing that, but I still fear. What should I do?

I am making an assumption I'll likely connect with another person who is divorced, right? I am frankly terrified, dating back about starting again, etc. … Maybe I am looking for words of wisdom from other divorcees. There is still a “stigma” attached when you tell someone you are divorced?

I am going back to 21 years old Marine. He is recently divorced because his wife cheated on him when he was in Iraq. For his scam, which has problems of trust - especially with women. He's told me that every day his concerns for me to be unfaithful get some 'better. I told him not to finish as I have never cheated and never will. I care deeply about him and want this to work. There were no children involved in her previous marriage, and he came from a loving family. In addition to his trust issues and the fact that he is a hardened Marine, there are other things that should worry? Someone has tips for dating a new divorcee?

The relationship between sepration married is going upward from every passing day. If anyone has the answer as happens.