MizzeL asked:

A friends husband has cheated on her 5 times in the 6 years they have been married. 2 with ordinary citizens and 3 prostitues - frequency of visits unknown. He has also hit her once. She wanted to leave he begged her to stay and is now trying to make the changes and be a good guy, gifts, flowres, love the works! A real charmer. Should she forgive him? They have 2 kids together.

Jo a asked:

my husband left me on Monday, I found out that he was cheating on me thru email. We have been married for like 1 1/2 years. Together almost 7 yrs. Why didn’t he tell me sooner that he was unhappy with the marriage. Could the pressure of not getting pregnant caused this relationship to go sour? I was depressed but I still loved him. This will be my second divorce. Both were cops and both cheated on me. I feel so ashamed and embrassed to tell anyone this has happened again and so soon after marriage. I’m 35 now. who will want be with me and have a family with me.