Help with my girlfriend?

February 26th, 2008
uptight girlfriend


How do I get my girlfriend to open up to more things in bed?She is very uptight in that department thnx
by uptight I mean she won’t let me go down because she feels shy she is very beautiful and I want her to open up more to me.


15 Responses to “Help with my girlfriend?”

  1. Immortal Says:

    make her feel really sexy

  2. vixen~sweety Says:

    talk to her

  3. clou1552 Says:

    You just have to be patient, talk to her take things slow

  4. elliotinashell Says:

    get her drunk - pretty easy method

    or talk - the hard way

  5. sunshine_today Says:

    Look, she isn’t a blow up doll there for your pleasure, she’s a person. It sounds like you a clueless clod who doesn’t care about her responses or comfort level, which makes you a lousy lover.

  6. time heals! Says:

    flirt with her

  7. Dream Thang Says:

    SICKO!!!! Be a good CHRISTIAN and dont do it with her until u are married, so i like ur girlfriend if she dont let you do it with her!!!!!!

  8. fxysxysrkly Says:

    Well in the beginning tell her anything that you want. I won’t do anything until you tell me. Also get her really aroused first this will make her want it more and she will do anything to get it. Also if that doesn’t work then tell her how you fell. Make sure she knows that you would like her to be a little more adventerous. You are willing to do anything. Good luck!

  9. Frogz Says:

    do a bunch of stuff she likes before trying to convince her

  10. Don Says:

    If she’s uptight, you’re not making her feel comfortable with what you’re already doing. You don’t order expensive food from a restaurant that can’t even make a salad

  11. LaToya Says:

    if you really care about her and want to be with her take it slow.

  12. rav b Says:

    The only thing you can do is either make her really horney or get her drunk. I don’t think she’s ready for whatever it is you want her to do. So just give it time. As soon as she realizes how patient and respecting you are of her, she will open up to you more and more gradually.

  13. blazegirl Says:

    Take things slow and easy and be patient. Ask her what she likes for you to do to please her and let her know the same. Sometimes it takes a woman some time to open up to doing more things in bed-then you may have dynamite on your hands-one hot female.

  14. lex Says:

    time and patience,,set the mood,,help her relax and talk to her more,,,’do you like it when i kiss you here’? dont just jump in and go straight to her genitals as she will unlikely respond to you.start with her face,,keep eye contact as this is very erotic and she can see what you are looking at,dont pressure her if she decides to stop you,,she will know if she enjoyed what you were doing and if you listen to her body you will learn the signs for ’stop’ and ‘go’ without her having to say which may also be embarrassing for her also.she will more likely respond if she knows you will listen and this is a learned process,if she trusts you to stop when she says she may allow you to go further.obviously this all depends on how old you both are because if you are both young the chances are not a lot will work as neither of you are experienced enough to understand your partner.

  15. Cheryl T Says:

    You must be too young to understand women, you have to take things slow and treat her like a lady all the time, be very attentive and caring, it’s the things you do that lets her know how much you care about her. Let it be her idea, don’t push her into it, that is a turnoff. Treating her like the most precious girl in the world, will turn her on.