wow he seems lame, there really shouldnt be an excuse of why he missed. next time he asks you to do something say you will and ditch him. see if he likes it.
Hahaha perfect opportunity to show you dont care!!! Seriously, men love women thriving off them, so dont show an ounce of being upset!!!! Plus say that you forgot anyway and went out with a friend, then talk about a fantastic time you had!! He will grovel. They like to be needed.
hey revenges have very little good results, only my thinking though why be mean for somebody who is not nice.yes do let them know that you are capable of a better doing then they do.well then again if they did somthing bad by mistake find out before
yeah i know revange sounds really sweet right about now but you know just give your self time to cool off and then talk to him about it you never know what happed….then if he doesnt tell you a reasonable answer you just need to dumb him cause he is so not even worth your time!!!!
Hope this helps
Selina
Is this someone you actually care about? Why would you want revenge? You would get better results if you talked to him and let him know how disappointed and hurt you are over the whole situation instead of acting like a teenager.
Revenge is not a mature emotion. Nor is it something to build a relationship on. Especially since he called to say he couldn’t make it. For pity sakes, have you never had something come up. I’m married and my husband and I have things that come up in my life all the time. Especially with work or church or our child. We understand and support each other.
If you want revenge then break up with him. It will make you feel better and it will be the best thing that every happens to him. He will be free to find a woman who is grown up and can understand life happens.
I guess if he didn’t have the respect to show up to something like this, I would make sure I was not available for quite some time. In my opinion it shows he is a thoughtless, selfish jerk!
Ever seen Saw 3, Vengance NEVER gets u anywhere, it only makes things worse. JUST WATCH THE END OF SAW 3 and ull see exactly what i mean. All vengance is the same.
DONT SEEK REVENGE!! ITS NOT GONNA TURN OUT WELL IN THE END IF YOU DO. “IF YOU FIGHT FIRE WITH FIRE ALL YOU GET IS A BIGGER FIRE”, SO JUST DROP THE IDEA OF IT ALL TOGETHER!!!
Personally I would not seek revenge, I would be woman enough to tell him what I thought, and how I felt after he failed to show. Revenge is never good, BECAUSE WHAT GOES AROUND SURELY COMES AROUND BACK TO YOU do you plan on getting revenge on him every time he doesn’t do something or call, thats not good, and maybe you should consider as to whether or not you want to be in a relationship. There is going to come a day when you will be in the same boat would you want him to take revenge out on you. revenge is a terrible thing, it just makes the person or persons angrier and I truly believe that you are much better than that. TALK TO HIM AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND USE KIND WORDS, DON’T GO OFF, A KIND WORD TURNS AWAY WRATH. Good Luck
Umm… I think what you really need to do is ask yourself,do you even love this guy? Cause if you did I don’t think you would want to get revenge on him. Sure I know your mad but come on he is a guy what can you expect? They are going to do that, and if your relationship is strong you will be able to look past this. I hope you do the right thing. Good luck!
Let me let you in on a little secret. The best revenge is looking out for yourself. If you feel like you need to seek revenge, spend that energy thinking about enhancing your life. The best feeling in the world is knowing you were a good partner and you did the right thing the entire relationship. If you decide to leave him, his suffering from the loss of you is revenge enough.
Find out why he couldn’t make ti. If it is not a good reason, get rid of him as soon as possible and don’t waste your time any more. Don’t look for revenge, look for somebody , who likes you.
December 20th, 2007 at 9:37 pm
Don’t show up for his birthday.
December 22nd, 2007 at 1:14 pm
Don’t. Vengeance is the Lords. Dump him and move on.
December 24th, 2007 at 9:13 am
If he called to say that he couldn’t make it then why do you feel the need to seek revenge? Grow up. Disappointment is a part of life.
December 26th, 2007 at 3:50 am
if you r seeking revenge then that aint true love
December 28th, 2007 at 5:48 pm
do the same thing back! ha ha ha ha !
December 30th, 2007 at 1:44 pm
wow he seems lame, there really shouldnt be an excuse of why he missed. next time he asks you to do something say you will and ditch him. see if he likes it.
December 30th, 2007 at 1:47 pm
If you are having sex with him—Cut Him Off for a while.
December 31st, 2007 at 7:22 am
Oh, oh, I love revenge questions……
* Purchase some deer urine (sold at feed stores) and pour it around his car/house. I’m told it smells horrid and you can’t remove the smell.
* Get a little grave dirt and well, what ever you do with the grave dirt will be fun.
December 31st, 2007 at 9:56 pm
wait til he needs you and say NO.
January 2nd, 2008 at 2:51 pm
don’t get revenge. you’ll relationship will break up. i think he’s telling the truth.
January 3rd, 2008 at 9:02 pm
Well you can do the same thing back to him and show him how it feels, always works and then you can laugh in his face muahahahahaha :o)
January 4th, 2008 at 1:07 pm
with the utmost sarcasm. but remember: revenge is a dish best served cold, but retaliation should be flaming, or the person will just send it back.
January 5th, 2008 at 9:23 am
just dont call him let him come to you.
January 8th, 2008 at 12:07 am
Mke him a nice batch of brownies or chocolate chip cookies using ex-lax for the chocolate. And make sure the bathroom door is locked.
January 9th, 2008 at 1:05 am
revenge is vicious…i don’t like girls who take revenge on others…
January 12th, 2008 at 1:06 am
Hahaha perfect opportunity to show you dont care!!! Seriously, men love women thriving off them, so dont show an ounce of being upset!!!! Plus say that you forgot anyway and went out with a friend, then talk about a fantastic time you had!! He will grovel. They like to be needed.
January 14th, 2008 at 10:06 am
dont do that it is wrong…dump him or compromise
January 14th, 2008 at 2:41 pm
hey revenges have very little good results, only my thinking though why be mean for somebody who is not nice.yes do let them know that you are capable of a better doing then they do.well then again if they did somthing bad by mistake find out before
January 16th, 2008 at 1:25 pm
yeah i know revange sounds really sweet right about now but you know just give your self time to cool off and then talk to him about it you never know what happed….then if he doesnt tell you a reasonable answer you just need to dumb him cause he is so not even worth your time!!!!
Hope this helps
Selina
January 19th, 2008 at 10:34 pm
Is this someone you actually care about? Why would you want revenge? You would get better results if you talked to him and let him know how disappointed and hurt you are over the whole situation instead of acting like a teenager.
January 22nd, 2008 at 5:43 pm
Poop without wiping, then pull him in the bedroom and sit on his face, rubbing all that fudge up his nose. Like that, don’t you? So dirty.
January 24th, 2008 at 8:40 pm
START DATING OTHER GUYS. YOU DO NOT NEED TO PUT UP WITH THAT
January 26th, 2008 at 11:21 pm
Revenge is not a mature emotion. Nor is it something to build a relationship on. Especially since he called to say he couldn’t make it. For pity sakes, have you never had something come up. I’m married and my husband and I have things that come up in my life all the time. Especially with work or church or our child. We understand and support each other.
If you want revenge then break up with him. It will make you feel better and it will be the best thing that every happens to him. He will be free to find a woman who is grown up and can understand life happens.
January 28th, 2008 at 9:23 am
I guess if he didn’t have the respect to show up to something like this, I would make sure I was not available for quite some time. In my opinion it shows he is a thoughtless, selfish jerk!
January 30th, 2008 at 8:16 am
break up with him
January 30th, 2008 at 3:52 pm
Ever seen Saw 3, Vengance NEVER gets u anywhere, it only makes things worse. JUST WATCH THE END OF SAW 3 and ull see exactly what i mean. All vengance is the same.
January 31st, 2008 at 7:04 am
be a bitch and get him back if he wants to meet somewhere or makes plans for you then at the last minute say you can’t make it
January 31st, 2008 at 8:36 pm
DONT SEEK REVENGE!! ITS NOT GONNA TURN OUT WELL IN THE END IF YOU DO. “IF YOU FIGHT FIRE WITH FIRE ALL YOU GET IS A BIGGER FIRE”, SO JUST DROP THE IDEA OF IT ALL TOGETHER!!!
February 3rd, 2008 at 1:14 am
Personally I would not seek revenge, I would be woman enough to tell him what I thought, and how I felt after he failed to show. Revenge is never good, BECAUSE WHAT GOES AROUND SURELY COMES AROUND BACK TO YOU do you plan on getting revenge on him every time he doesn’t do something or call, thats not good, and maybe you should consider as to whether or not you want to be in a relationship. There is going to come a day when you will be in the same boat would you want him to take revenge out on you. revenge is a terrible thing, it just makes the person or persons angrier and I truly believe that you are much better than that. TALK TO HIM AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND USE KIND WORDS, DON’T GO OFF, A KIND WORD TURNS AWAY WRATH. Good Luck
February 5th, 2008 at 3:01 pm
if you want revenge you obviously dont love him.. dump him and move on.. that would be good enough revenge!
February 7th, 2008 at 9:49 pm
Dont seek revenge get a new man or just be happy by yourself~!!! You dont need a man to make you happy thats for sure~!!!
February 8th, 2008 at 11:52 pm
Dont it will just make you seem like a fool.
And do u really want him to make a fool out of you?
He already did by not showing up.
Show him you are strong..dump him and move on.
February 11th, 2008 at 9:31 pm
Umm… I think what you really need to do is ask yourself,do you even love this guy? Cause if you did I don’t think you would want to get revenge on him. Sure I know your mad but come on he is a guy what can you expect? They are going to do that, and if your relationship is strong you will be able to look past this. I hope you do the right thing. Good luck!
February 14th, 2008 at 10:29 pm
If you seek revenge you will be lowering yourself to a level beneath him. Now why would you want to do that to yourself?
February 16th, 2008 at 11:14 am
He’s not good enough for you…
February 18th, 2008 at 9:42 am
Let me let you in on a little secret. The best revenge is looking out for yourself. If you feel like you need to seek revenge, spend that energy thinking about enhancing your life. The best feeling in the world is knowing you were a good partner and you did the right thing the entire relationship. If you decide to leave him, his suffering from the loss of you is revenge enough.
February 21st, 2008 at 4:27 pm
Did he have a good reason? I’d let it slide… Two wrongs don’t make a right.
February 22nd, 2008 at 7:00 am
Find out why he couldn’t make ti. If it is not a good reason, get rid of him as soon as possible and don’t waste your time any more. Don’t look for revenge, look for somebody , who likes you.